Often Maleness seen same as “manly”, paints certain convincing pictures of how things should be.

Pictures, shaped by beliefs created and compounded by societal, family and cultural consensus.
Pictures, that boxes in what a Man is, what a man does and not. But nothing to do with reality.
Lies, for a Man who is Not those, is left to fight a frustrating battle on the road to personal autonomy.

Consider this from a Spiritual (or Energetic) angle.

Maleness defined

Maleness defined from an energetic perspective is a Man’s ability to access intelligence, hence wisdom unique to his Male body.
Unique to him, different from other men.
As you start to consider this, the idea of boxing in Men into checklist of stereotypes, starts to look silly.

The Sensitive Male

A Male body vibrates at 40Hz and Woman’s energy at 120Hz. A pregant woman’s at 240Hz.
Consider Men and Women have both Masculine and Feminine energy channels running through their body.
The bump in energy for Women come from powerful creative force of the the “baby making” machinery which sits in the Sacral chakra.

A “sensitive” male, can defined as one sensitive to “Energy”. Perhaps more so than his peers.
“Energy” includes unseen like “thoughts” and “emotions”. Ours and others.
Sensitivity from that view is Awareness.

Though being sensitive is not same as being governed by it, often Men (or women) can become product of what they Sense.
As opposed to being alignment with their own wisdom.

Often such Sensitive Men run higher degree of Feminine energy in their feminine channels.
This is starting to become less uncommon with more and more Men embodying the Feminine energy flowing into this planet.

But a Man “running” or accessing his Feminine energy is not as same him running a Woman’s feminine energy through his 40HZ body.
One is a 40Hz body another 120Hz body.

Sometimes the high vibrating female energy of Woman is something the Sensitive Male find easy to “drop into” .
For men who do that starts arise the consideration,
“How much I’m I becoming a result of the Women’s energy (their opinion/beliefs?”
OR
“How much of my own information I’m in touch with?”

What kind of Man are you ?

One of my Clairvoyant Teachers once posed the question as….

What kind of Man are you? A Man’s man? Woman’s Man? Or your own Man?

A Woman’s man is the one who shapes himself from the sensitivity to the opinion of the women in his life.
There is a Mother, sister, girlfriend, daughter to please. Maybe to an extent of giving power away.

A Man starts to become his own man when he starts to be a result of alignment with his own wisdom. Or information from his Male body.
A state of being that says “yes I’m sensitive to opinion of women and others around me but I’m not necessarily governed by it”

A Woman’s Man

If spiritual pursuit was defined as search for one’s own Truth.
The subset, from a Male perspective maybe find a Man asking “How much of my Male information/wisdom do I access?”

Or “how much I’m I shaped and defined by what I’m Not?”

So the question for men affected by Women around them maybe…
“What parts of me are shaped by opinion of women?”
Women he surrounds himself with. Women he had history with. Starting with his first female experience, his Mother.

But the place to start is,
“Why do I allow myself to give my power away to All That is Not Me?”
Or why and how does a Man start to lose access to his own wisdom.

Someone looking at personal autonomy may start to wonder,
are questions like “How I’m I doing?” and “I’m I OK?” ,
defined by a checklist women around him carry??

Or does the gauge come from within, the Man’s inner wisdom.

Becoming your own man

As one start to embark on the journey to freedom from What is not Me, some questions start to shape their path.

What is mine and what is Not?
How do I let myself governed by What Is Not Me?
How do I start to Be, All that is Me?

The first step to all of this is Inward Awareness. That is Awareness of what is going on Inside the person. As opposed to being fixated on “look at what They are doing to me”.

Armed with Inward Awareness and some sort of Tools, one begins to peel layers and layers of Lies.
All that is Not Me starts to fade away to reveal All That is Me.